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November 26, 2007

Telling the Stories Behind the Abortions

This article is from the NYT health section.
Dr Susan Wickland, an abortionist who flies places in order to perform abortions, has written a book "This Common Secret: My Journey as an Abortion Doctor"

One thing we agree on is the fact that no one really speaks of abortion but the women having them are our sisters and mothers etc. The commonalities stop there.

While she only does first trimester abortions she supports late term ones. She also feels that a 24 hour waiting period is about "controlling women" and an "insult" to women. I have to wonder if she believes it is insulting to women that those who are suffering are told their feelings are not legitimate.

Control seems to be a theme throughout the article, possibly a connector to her own abortion.

While she paints a heroic picture of herself as the caring abortionist, Dr Wicklund leaves out the fact that women still die from abortion, are left sterile and  suffer psychologically and spiritually as a result .

"This Common Secret..." may be hidden, but the voices of women speaking out in truth of abortions harm is getting louder and louder.


http://www.nytimes.com/2007/11/06/health/06abor.html?n=Top/Reference/Times%20Topics/People/D/Dean,%20Cornelia

Title X funding

http://illinoisreview.typepad.com/illinoisreview/2007/11/congresman-penc.html

Good for congressman Mike Pence (R-IN), who is introducing a bill to stop Title X money from going to abortionists. I hope this makes it through.

November 21, 2007

check this out

from Pro Life blogs ...At last, an aboritonist who admits to the lies

http://www.prolifeblogs.com/articles/archives/2007/11/hodaris_license.php

November 20, 2007

Happy Feminist Thanksgiving,

Eleanor Smeal, President of the Feminist Majority Foundation sent outan appeal today. For a contribution of $20 or more you can be part of MS. Magazine. To commemorate their Anniversary, they are sponsoring a  "This is What a Feminist Looks Like" section in Ms. and
want your name to be in it.


"
Your name, together with a host of celebrities and feminist leaders, will be part of our special January 2008 winter issue when you give today"

The Feminist Majority Foundation promotes abortion throughout the world,
spearheaded the drive to win FDA approval for mifepristone, launched a nationwide project to stop violence at our nation's women's clinics (meaning trying to stop pro life demonstrations)and began a Choices Campus Leadership program.

So, as long as you give them money and support their extreme pro abortion efforts, you can be part of their project.

Too bad they are not as vocal about the women who die from"safe legal abortion" or the ones who are left unable to have other children, or the ones who suffer psychologically because of their abortion experience

I guess if you do not believe in abortion, or if you do not donate, they do not consider you a feminist!

Thanksgiving

Well, the holidays are upon us. It is all too easy for me at times to get caught up in all that is what I see as wrong and forget about the many blessings I have.In the end I know it is all "Right" because God desires my salvation and so allows all that happens to happen to bring me to Him.

Praying, as always, for a grateful heart for the many gifts God has, and continues to bestow on me.
I pray the same for all of  you.

May you have a blessed Thanksgiving filled with peace, love and good cheer!

Welcome Post abortive Women

I was so happy to see  this. Not that I did not think this is the way the Pope feels, but I do think many still need to hear it.

Years ago I began a group "Reclaiming Our Children" which focused on making our aborted children part of our lives as "family" and restoring relationships, so that is why I especially love the Popes words on that below.

While I appreciate all the pro life efforts of everyone and they certainly were there for our children when we were not, for what ever reasons, reconciliation is the key. Reconciliation with God, our children, ourselves and all involved in our abortions, for in the end, they belong to our family.

I pray that this brings about more of an effort to reach out in love to the many separated from the church because they think they cannot be forgiven.

Pope Benedict Tells Catholics to Defend Life, Welcome Post-Abortion Women

by      Steven Ertelt
          LifeNews.com Editor
          November 19,
2007
         

 The Vatican (LifeNews.com) -- Pope Benedict XVI met with bishops from  Kenya today and urged Catholic around the world to continue to do everything possible to defend human beings from abortions. He also urged Catholics to welcome women who have had abortions back to the Church so they can           rebuild relationships the abortion destroyed.          

ThePope praised the way that the people of the eastern African nation  revere human life and said, “This precious treasure must be guarded at all costs.”

"This  direct destruction of an innocent human life can never be justified,  however difficult the circumstances that may lead some to consider taking such a grave step," the pontiff added, according to a Catholic News Agency report.

The Holy Father instructed the bishops: "When you preach the Gospel  of Life, remind your people that the right to life of every innocent  human being, born or unborn, is absolute and applies equally to all       people with no exception whatsoever."

But  Pope Benedict warned Catholics that they need to do more than vocalize  opposition to abortion -- they must also provide tangible support  to women in need.

He  said the Catholic community “must offer support to those women who  may find it difficult to accept a child, above all when they are isolated  from their family and friends.”

Benedict also said Catholics should welcome post-abortive women back to their churches and provide them hope and healing, CNA reported.

He  called on them to “be open to welcome back all who repent of having participated in the grave sin of abortion, and should guide them with pastoral charity to accept the grace of forgiveness, the need for     penance, and the joy of entering once more into the new life of Christ."

Ultimately,  he called on Catholics in nations like Kenya to resist outside pressure  from the United Nations, other countries, or pro-abortion groups to  promote abortion.

 "While this understanding of Christian family life finds a deep resonance   in Africa, it is a matter of great concern that the globalized secular  culture is exerting an increasing influence on local communities as  a result of campaigns by agencies promoting abortion,” he said.

http://www.lifenews.com/printpage.php
            
            

November 19, 2007

The Hidden Secret

In the past week I have gotten a few calls from women who have kept their abortions hidden for decades and still live in the fear of being found out. It is heart wrenching knowing the pain this causes...

It takes great courage to make that initial call and I am so happy these women did.

Healing from a past abortion is not easy. In fact, it can be very painful, but carrying around that "secret" alone for years is far worse. I often compare it to lugging around a backpack filled with rocks...it can cripple you, but once you begin to address it, little by little you throw out the stones and in the end, your weight is lifted.

Going for help also makes you recognize you are not alone in your feelings, while you meet others on different stages of the same journey.

It is amazing how many are suffering in silence, but also very uplifting to see that more and more are coming forward with the hope of healing, which I know is there for each of us.

Huckabee Says Abortion Not for States

'It's the logic of the Civil War,' Huckabee said Sunday, comparing abortion rights to slavery. 'If morality is the point here, and if it's right or wrong, not just a political question, then you can't have 50 different versions of what's right and what's wrong.'

http://www.topix.net/content/ap/2007/11/huckabee-says-abortion-not-for-states

Finally someone who makes sense...don't know much about him and really do not want to get political on here but I could not help but post his statement....

November 15, 2007

The Truth About Abortion and Mental Health

First it was just articles, now we have graduated to writing books to claim there is no such thing as post abortion stress. "Abortion Counseling - A Clinician's Guide to Psychology, Legislation, Politics, and Competency by Rachel Needle, PsyD; & Lenore Walker, EdD has hit the shelves.

In the end, the article actually made me happy...we who are post abortive and speaking out about our experiences and the damage abortion has caused us must actually be making them panic, and no books or articles can take away the truth of what we went through....

I must say, this article about the book  http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2007/11/14/the-truth-about-abortion-and-womens-mental-health  mad me angry at first. At least until I read this..the authors mom was an abortionist!
"Dr. Needle has a compelling and unique motivation for co-writing this book. The book is dedicated to “abortion providers [as] the true unsung heroes of this movement.” This includes Dr. Needle’s mother, who has worked in the field of abortion care for more than thirty years."

There is also a link to The Elliot Institute's web site in the article..joined by the words "post abortion myth" http://www.afterabortion.org/

                 

The Truth About Abortion and Mental Health

                                                                             
    Marcy Bloom, GIRE on November 15, 2007 - 8:58am                
 
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The right to abortion and access to safe abortion care has been extraordinarily politicized in the US (and elsewhere) for decades now and women’s physical, emotional, spiritual, and psychological needs have been ignored, distorted, and caught in the cross-fire. So I have found it exciting to be able to read and review the ground-breaking new book “Abortion Counseling: A Clinician’s Guide to Psychology, Legislation, Politics, and Competency” by Rachel B. Needle, PsyD, and Lenore E.A. Walker, EdD. In a clear, straightforward, and informative style that is accessible to all, Drs. Needle and Walker emphasize the importance of abortion counseling for women who may be contemplating an abortion, or those who have had one. The authors emphasize that “abortion counseling has a critical role to play in ensuring women’s mental health is the priority not the goals of a political agenda.”

Powerful words. The authors deal with this theme admirably and thoroughly. They state unequivocally that “unintended child-bearing is destructive to the mental health of women and their families [and] women’s mental health has become a political weapon in efforts to restrict legal access to abortion.”

With readable scientific information covering a myriad of topics in a comfortable format, Drs. Needle and Walker give readers dynamic ammunition and knowledge to cut through the vast anti-choice rhetoric that legal abortion harms women. Women’s cognitive decision-making and competency skills, the reasons women choose abortion, women who are high-risk for negative post-abortion outcomes, the myth of “post-abortion syndrome,” family violence, debunking myths about women’s reproductive health care, a model program for post-abortion counseling, the endless legal restrictions that attempt—and often succeed—in denying women access to safe abortion care, and the impact of the abortion debate on women, therapists, and clinic workers—these are among the issues covered in this comprehensive book.

Dr. Needle has a compelling and unique motivation for co-writing this book. The book is dedicated to “abortion providers [as] the true unsung heroes of this movement.” This includes Dr. Needle’s mother, who has worked in the field of abortion care for more than thirty years.

“Growing up the daughter of an abortion provider, I witnessed first-hand the controversy surrounding abortion and how the controversy harmed women," says Dr. Needle. She goes on:

Mental health professionals, on the whole, are not trained to address women who are considering abortion, or women who have terminated a pregnancy. There is no training on abortion counseling for mental health professionals and therefore there is minimal awareness of what is involved. There is a lack of understanding about abortion legislation and regulations, and little appreciation for how legislation can impact a woman and her family.

As Dr. Walker and I began to notice this lack of information available to mental health professionals, we felt the need to provide this resource where currently practicing clinicians and clinicians-in-training could go to learn more about abortion, including legislation, the myth of post-abortion syndrome, decision-making, competency, and how to assist women prior to and following an abortion procedure. Therapists and health care professionals need accurate information to assist women in making their own decisions about pregnancy planning.

Most importantly, despite the fact that the majority of research finds no evidence for negative psychological affects following pregnancy termination, the construct of a "post-abortion syndrome" continues to be raised by politicians and in the media. But research continues to find that terminating an unwanted pregnancy by an induced abortion does not cause women to become mentally ill. Those few women who may develop emotional problems after an abortion are then likely to misattribute their distress to the abortion rather than to the other factors that actually are known to create such emotional distress. These factors include pre-existing psychiatric conditions and a history of physical and sexual abuse. When these factors are controlled, studies of women who chose to have an abortion find that they are no more likely to suffer from depression, anxiety disorders, psychotic problems, or suicidal behavior than those women who chose to carry the pregnancy to full term.

Given all of the anti-choice rhetoric, distortion, and misinformation, as well as the lack of training in the area of pregnancy termination, it was time for a book to educate all those who are engaged in both pre- and post- abortion counseling. In order to do so, again, it is important for therapists to understand the politics and legislative history affecting women’s decision-making, be knowledgeable about accurate information about the abortion procedure itself, and understand the psychological theories about the development of stable emotions to assist counselors and therapists in determining the woman’s emotional state both pre- and post- termination. Finally, therapists—as well as the public—must be aware that research demonstrates that "post abortion syndrome" does not exist, even though some women may have some temporary negative or ambivalent feelings.

This is why we wrote our book. We trust that it will be helpful.

Yes, it is. “Abortion Counseling: A Clinician’s Guide to Psychology, Legislation, Politics, and Competency” is a book for everyone interested in knowing the truth about women, abortion, and women’s mental health. Whether you are new to the issue or a veteran, there is much to learn from this excellent resource.

I wish this dynamic book had been available when I first started to counsel women having abortions in 1970. There was no developed profession of abortion counseling at that time and we created a new field. This compelling book puts it all together with updated information and clear scientific discussion and analysis. “Abortion Counseling” cuts through the lies and will help to frame the future for women’s mental health as we continue to articulate the truth about abortion.

November 09, 2007

Almost every teen comes with a parent....

So says Clover Simon, head of Planned Parenthood of Alaska.

Personally I find that hard to believe considering whenever I speak in a high school one of the things the girls who are post abortive always tell me is that thier parents know they have changed but don;t knwo why.

Besides, if what Clover says is true, why is is opposed to the law?

My parents pushed me to abort...it was an terrible mistake, but at least it was a life altering mistake made within th efamily. The thought that a young girl can decide on her own without parental involvement is crazy, and thier reasoning is crazier...once again, it only applies to abortion.

I hope this gets passed...these girls deserve better in their lives.

http://www.adn.com/news/alaska/story/9438426p-9350282c.html